My friends knew I didn't want a big baby shower since I don't enjoy being the center of attention. They threw me a shower at the Sky bar and it was wonderful. Amanda had a cake from the erotic bakery for us to enjoy. At first we were told no cake after dark because a few years ago there had been a huge cake fight and the carpet had been ruined. Luckily we looked like "respectable" young women so the owner let us have the cake and the girls put up decorations.